Monday, October 24, 2011
Cloud of Grief
Yesterday morning. Blindsided by a heavy cloud of grief. Blew in without warning. Undeterred by the bright skies and sunshine outside. Stubbornly anchoring itself. For no particular reason. The date having no special significance. Not missing them more than on other days. It just happened. This process of grieving so unpredictable. Resulting in a 'holding my head above water' kind of day. Profound sadness penetrating my entire being. Weighing it down. Tears flowing. Breathing laboured. Despite meditation. Not eased by the self talk of how much worse it could be. Its firm grip remaining even after a long walk along the ocean. Not relieved by a conversation with a friend or phone call to a relative. Accepting this is what it looks like at times. Hopeful that today will be better. Confident of being able to weather it if not.